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Karen Burgess once sang to a jury in closing argument. And she’s not even an accomplished singer. But it reflects her strategy for closing argument, and she reveals why to host Kevin Morrison. A member of the “big four” invitation-only organizations – the American Board of Trial Advocates, International Academy of Trial Lawyers, American College of Trial Lawyers, and International Society of Barristers – Karen also founded her Austin-based boutique firm, Burgess Law. Tune in for her insights on closing argument, direct examination, and “love, logistics, and the law.” And stayed tuned to find out what song she sang and why it mattered.
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Speaker:preserving trial wisdom for trial
lawyers. Join host Kevin Morrison,
Speaker:trial attorney in San Francisco,
Speaker:as he recreates those invaluable hallway
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Speaker:rare.
Speaker:Candid insights and hard-won lessons
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Speaker:lawyers, produced and powered by LawPods.
Speaker:Welcome to another episode
of Verdict Academy,
Speaker:where we bring you the best trial
lawyers in the country who share with you
Speaker:their top three pointers in 30 minutes.
Speaker:And when I say we bring you the
best in the country, I mean it.
Speaker:Our guest today is Karen Burgess
of Burgess Law in Austin.
Speaker:She's a commercial trial attorney.
Speaker:She tries cases ranging from trademark
infringement to partnership disputes in
Speaker:every other kind of commercial case. Karen
is at the pinnacle of our profession.
Speaker:How do we know that? Well,
Speaker:she's a member of what I call the big
four invitation only organizations,
Speaker:ABOTA, the International
Academy of Trial Lawyers,
Speaker:the American College of Trial Lawyers,
Speaker:and the International
Society of Barristers. And
Karen is not only a member,
Speaker:but a leader.
Speaker:She's the immediate past president of
the academy and has served ABOTA as its
Speaker:national treasurer and as
president of the Austin chapter.
Speaker:Karen was raised in Waco,
Speaker:Texas and graduated from Rice University
in three years and then graduated
Speaker:from UT Austin Law where she
met her wonderful husband,
Speaker:Brian Gohorns. Right?
Horn, did I say that right?
Speaker:Yeah, Hookum.
Speaker:Hookam.
Speaker:Karen founded Burgess Law in Austin
in:Speaker:boutique,
Speaker:which limits its cases and they're
all exquisitely worked up for trial.
Speaker:We'd be here all day talking about
Karen's impressive trial results,
Speaker:but perhaps what is most impressive
is that she had the guts to sing
Speaker:to a jury in closing argument.
Speaker:As accomplished a trial attorney as she
is, Karen is an incredibly approachable,
Speaker:kind, and real person. Karen Burgess,
Speaker:welcome to Verdict Academy.
Speaker:Well, I thank you. I am
not an accomplished singer.
Speaker:I can tell you that for sure. For sure.
Speaker:But she had the guts to do it.
Speaker:And I might do it today. We're talking
about closing, so you never know.
Speaker:Karen,
Speaker:what drew you to become a courtroom
trial attorney as opposed to any other
Speaker:kind of lawyer?
Speaker:Well, I was one of those
speech and debate kids,
Speaker:and my mom knew one lawyer
and she was very glamorous.
Speaker:I didn't realize that might have
been because she didn't have kids,
Speaker:so a fancy car and went on vacation.
So I thought that sounded ...
Speaker:I didn't rule out lawyer from that
experience. But then when I was ...
Speaker:I still have no idea what she did as a
lawyer, but when I was in high school,
Speaker:generous lawyers from the community,
we didn't know them before,
Speaker:but they came in and they taught
our mock trial classes and our team,
Speaker:and they coached our team to great
heights within the Waco community and
Speaker:beyond. And they were just so generous.
Speaker:I still use their tips today in trial.
Speaker:They were really good trial lawyers and
they were really generous with their
Speaker:time and then a-.
Speaker:Isn't the high school mock
trial you're talking about?
Speaker:High school mock trial. So when you get
that invitation and you think, "Gosh,
Speaker:I've just got one more thing to do on
my list today." You might be really
Speaker:inspiring someone to do this and
then maybe to serve others as well.
Speaker:So they did that.
Speaker:And then I went to a law school
knowing I wanted to be a trial lawyer,
Speaker:but really a lot of people go to law
school thinking that they're going to be
Speaker:trial lawyers, especially women. And
even when you and I went to school,
Speaker:it was fifty fifty women and
you don't see that in ...
Speaker:We were calling the big
four, you see 10 to 20,
Speaker:25 max percent women in those
groups. And the reason is,
Speaker:I think because they don't get
that early trial experience.
Speaker:And then once you get into having kids,
Speaker:you're right in that really grind of
discovery and whatnot. But I went to work
Speaker:for some guys who had just broken off
from a national firm and broken up with a
Speaker:national firm,
Speaker:but they were desperate and they had
three trials on the docket in the next six
Speaker:months. And I tried those three cases,
Speaker:second chair to juries right off the
bat and really, really got hooked.
Speaker:And so even when things got dark,
when we had two littles at home,
Speaker:we powered through it.
Speaker:That's incredible.
Speaker:I know one of the things we're going
to talk about is kind of balance and
Speaker:logistics and all that kind of stuff.
Speaker:And I didn't want to point
this out in your introduction,
Speaker:but trial lawyer is a grind,
right? I mean, it's the best thing.
Speaker:It's the most exciting thing, but it's
a grind for anybody. And for women,
Speaker:it's doubly hard. There's
a double standard.
Speaker:You guys are held to an
almost impossible standard.
Speaker:If you choose to have a
family, for whatever reason,
Speaker:the wife tends to get more or the mother
tends to get more of the household
Speaker:stuff with the kids. It's just
kind of how it is. I know partners,
Speaker:I know Brian is an incredible partner.
Speaker:I know he shares
responsibilities with you,
Speaker:but it is really hard to
be a woman trial attorney.
Speaker:You have to decide that you're not going
to be on the board of the school and
Speaker:also bring the cupcakes
to every single thing.
Speaker:So that's kind of how you have
to ... Or you can decide, no,
Speaker:I want to bring the cupcakes, so I'm going
to not do this other thing. But yeah,
Speaker:it's a hard choice.
Speaker:And hopefully you're going to make it
in partnership with your partner or the
Speaker:other loved ones around you that are
creating the village around your kids.
Speaker:Yeah. I think we're going to
talk about it in a little bit.
Speaker:So let's get to the three things
that any trialer needs to know.
Speaker:My understanding, Karen, we're going to
talk about one, closing argument, two,
Speaker:direct examination. And then third
topic is love, logistics and the law,
Speaker:kind of what we just talked
about a little bit, I think.
Speaker:Is that generally right?
Speaker:Sounds great.
Speaker:Awesome. Let's talk
about closing argument.
Speaker:What advice do you want to impart
on our audience about closing?
Speaker:It's so fun. All this
other work, all this grind,
Speaker:all those early mornings and
late nights and everything,
Speaker:it's all worth it when you
get to connect with a jury.
Speaker:These are real people who are
making decisions about our disputes.
Speaker:And when we talk to people, you're
talking about the International Academy.
Speaker:When we talk to foreign
lawyers and journalists,
Speaker:they're shocked when we take them to
a courtroom and they see that these
Speaker:ordinary people are making
determinations about gigantic,
Speaker:life-changing, company killing,
company saving decisions.
Speaker:And it is really that grand experiment
and you get to be part of it.
Speaker:From the beginning,
Speaker:you get to be part of it even if you're
sitting fifth chair and doing the
Speaker:research, you're still part of it.
Speaker:But it's really exciting when you get to
talk to them in closing because it's so
Speaker:direct.
Speaker:So I have a formula for a closing and
I talk about it to people and I say,
Speaker:"If I'm ever opposite you in a case,
Speaker:you know what I'm going to do on closing.
You don't have to guess.
Speaker:I'm telling you now I'm going to do it
the same way every single time until
Speaker:somebody really convinces me of something
else." And so you start with a theme,
Speaker:that's its whole own topic.
I hope somebody either has
or will speak on themes,
Speaker:but how you're going to get your theme.
Speaker:And you referenced the case where I sang,
Speaker:and so I'll give that one as an
example, which was Lukenbach, Texas.
Speaker:And so the song like Going to Luke and
Buck Texas with William Waylon and-.
Speaker:I'm sorry, I don't. I don't
know that song. I'm sorry.
Speaker:Kevin Morrison.
Speaker:I know. I'm so bad. Sorry.
Speaker:We need to get you to Texas and spend
some time working on you. But okay,
Speaker:so others in your audience
hopefully will know that song,
Speaker:but it's from the '70s. It was like The
Birth of Outlaw Country, Willie Nelson,
Speaker:Waylon Jennings, Jerry Jeff Walker,
Speaker:and they're my client and
they have a trademark.
Speaker:It was an old German community, but
it was also, it's a music venue.
Speaker:It's a trademarked music venue.
Speaker:These hippie cowboy poets back in the
70s actually trademarked this stuff
Speaker:somehow or another or knew someone
who knew how to do that and they did.
Speaker:And so generationally- Kind.
Speaker:Of like the Grand Ole Opry situation
or what? Tell me, it's a town,
Speaker:but it's a music venue. Just
explain what it is. It's.
Speaker:An unincorporated municipality.
So it was a German community.
Speaker:They called Lukenbach because that was
somebody's last name who owned the little
Speaker:post office, but there never was a town.
Speaker:And so it is a defense to trademark
to be a geographic location,
Speaker:but it's much harder to get that
defense once that trademark has
Speaker:solidified as a trademark.
Speaker:And this one had been on the records
for so long that it had solidified.
Speaker:So it was a higher burden for the defense
to get around than it would've been if
Speaker:we didn't have those strong trademarks.
But there are all these liquor
Speaker:billionaires in Texas like Tito.
His name is literally Tito Beverage.
Speaker:So Tito's comes from Austin and he's a
great corporate citizen. He's now sold,
Speaker:but he's a great citizen of Austin.
Patron is owned by an Austinite.
Speaker:So all these liquor billionaires. And
so when there's liquor billionaires,
Speaker:there's liquor promoters. So this liquor
promoter goes to Lukenbach and says,
Speaker:"I've got this $100 million,
Speaker:I don't know how much million dollar idea
to do Lukenbach whiskey." They talked
Speaker:to him for a little while and they
look into it and they see his past
Speaker:business practices and they
decide to pass and they say,
Speaker:they literally write an email that says,
"Much obliged, sir, but no thank you.
Speaker:" So that's one of the emails. So anyway,
Speaker:he props up this other
guy. There's two cases.
Speaker:He props up this other lodge owner who's
calling it Lukenbach who had agreed to
Speaker:change it,
Speaker:but puts his case to trial with the same
lawyers as the promoter first because
Speaker:he thinks that's going to
be more sympathetic. And
there's a whole writeup in
Speaker:Texas Monthly about this, but he puts
this case up first, but we're still,
Speaker:we're really going to try Scloss.
The promoter is who we're targeting.
Speaker:And so our theme there
was, this is all to get to,
Speaker:with the theme was he took what
he couldn't buy. So he came to us,
Speaker:he asked to buy it, we said no.
Speaker:So he just starts it on his own
and takes what he can't buy.
Speaker:So that's the fun part, singing
to them about who we are,
Speaker:talking about the theme of he took,
Speaker:you always want to use
the protagonist first.
Speaker:He took what he couldn't buy and it's
all of this legend and lore that's in
Speaker:the hearts of a lot of Texans,
Speaker:but the younger jurors
didn't know Lukenbach.
Speaker:They came from wherever.
Speaker:They might've gone to UT and they stayed
or whatever. But by the time we're to
Speaker:this point in the trial at closing,
Speaker:they all know Lukenbach and they've
heard from these country legends and
Speaker:whatnot. So we get to do that fun
part. Then comes the less sexy part,
Speaker:which is what I call
the charged sandwiches.
Speaker:And I actually tell the jury,
Speaker:I am now making charged
sandwiches because part of this is
Speaker:a long time ago I figured out I can't be
super smooth like Kevin Morrison or the
Speaker:big gigantic Texas trial lawyer,
but I can be the trusted source.
Speaker:So I'm trying to be the teacher. And I
used to think about being a reporter,
Speaker:but now I guess everyone trusts half of
them or something like that or one third
Speaker:of them. But what you do is you take,
I mean, you probably already do this,
Speaker:but you take the charge and you
might get it very literally- We.
Speaker:Call them jury instructions, but you call.
Speaker:Them charges.
Speaker:But same deal. Yep.
Speaker:Go ahead. And we call the instructions
the part within the question,
Speaker:but we call the charge the questions.
Speaker:The verdict form, the
questions on the verdict?
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:Got it.
Speaker:So those are combined for us and we
kind of call the whole thing the charge.
Speaker:Got it. But as you know, you might,
depending on what court you're in,
Speaker:you might not get the final till nine
o'clock at night that night before you're
Speaker:going to be giving the closing.
But you have an idea of it.
Speaker:It really motivates you to
get going on the charge early.
Speaker:But what I do is put up, I use
slides, so it will be a late night,
Speaker:but you have a lot of help.
Here's question number one,
Speaker:maybe you've already talked about
burden and then question number one and
Speaker:helpful instructions,
Speaker:highlight the words in that question
that you want them to think about,
Speaker:maybe even dissect the
sentence if it's complicated.
Speaker:And then do three to five pieces of
evidence and testimony that support the
Speaker:answer you want and then go
back to the question and put the
Speaker:answer. So I call it a charge sandwich,
but it's really an evidence sandwich.
Speaker:So it's charge is the bread.
You have the charge question,
Speaker:you have the evidence, you have the
charge answer and you write it in,
Speaker:either you write it in or you
have your slide write it in.
Speaker:And it's especially if
you're the plaintiff and
especially when you're talking
Speaker:about money.
Speaker:And then the reason is you want
to arm those advocates for you in
Speaker:the jury room and you have to tell them
the answer. And if you don't have ...
Speaker:So we use documents,
Speaker:things like for actual confusion of
a trademark, social media is great,
Speaker:emails, contracts highlighted,
Speaker:and they've all seen this
evidence throughout the
trial. And then we ... Charts,
Speaker:if you've drawn flip charts,
I love using multimedia,
Speaker:different kinds of ways
of relating to them.
Speaker:Make sure you take a picture
of them so you can use them,
Speaker:those demonstratives in that slideshow,
and then answer the charge sandwich,
Speaker:go back to theme.
Speaker:And then if you're lucky enough
to be the plaintiff in giving a
Speaker:closing end with obviously
a question to the defense,
Speaker:that's going to be very hard for them to
answer. If you're on the defense side,
Speaker:then either answer the question at
some point, not at the beginning,
Speaker:don't take the bait. Usually don't take
the bait unless you really need to,
Speaker:or rehash it as them trying to
change what's important here.
Speaker:And then when you get to come back
up there, that's the really fun part.
Speaker:Usually- So.
Speaker:You get rebuttal in Texas. Do you.
Speaker:Not get it in California?
Speaker:Yeah, we do, but every jurisdiction's
different. Yep, we do. Yep.
Speaker:So yeah, when you get Wrebuttal,
Speaker:that's the part where you really get to
sing and really get to read the lyrics
Speaker:from the song and all
that, the really fun part.
Speaker:Yeah. So you got a great
template, basically story theme.
Speaker:And then let's say there's three,
Speaker:I'll call them three questions in the
verdict form or three charges, one, two,
Speaker:three, just make it
simple. Two, three, four,
Speaker:five pieces of evidence to support
your answer on the charge, fill it out,
Speaker:answer that question, and then et
cetera. And then you close with theme,
Speaker:maybe question to defense.
Speaker:There's going to be really
difficult for them to answer,
Speaker:and then you save your
great stuff for rebuttal.
Speaker:Exactly, exactly.
Speaker:And I would also say this
is a really granular point.
Speaker:When you're putting those three to
five pieces of evidence, testimony,
Speaker:if you've got the
transcript, that's great.
Speaker:But if you don't have the
transcript bullet points work,
Speaker:I like to keep notes on dividers if you
have a physical notebook of each witness
Speaker:of colorful language, great cross answers.
Speaker:But then the other thing is when
it's a documentary piece of evidence,
Speaker:to have the exhibit number on there and
you want to actually read it out and
Speaker:say,
Speaker:"This is exhibit number 18 and it's
the key email." And so then you see the
Speaker:jurors writing that down if they're able
to take notes and they're going to go
Speaker:back there in the jury because you're not
back there with them in the room where
Speaker:everything is really going to happen. And.
Speaker:Let you back in the jury room in Texas?
Speaker:They don't let you know in
the room where it happens.
Speaker:And jurors are nervous from the
beginning when they get there, right?
Speaker:And you're trying to have empathy
for the audience and you are
Speaker:holding the teacher's guide.
Speaker:Why not give it to them and give
them the evidence and the- So.
Speaker:You're the credible truth
teller. That's your role.
Speaker:I'm going to tell you the truth in this
case and back it up with evidence and
Speaker:they're going to trust you. That's
what you want to accomplish in court.
Speaker:That's it. The trusted.
Speaker:Source. Awesome. Direct examination.
Speaker:This is kind of undervalued,
I think. Some, "Oh,
Speaker:let's give my second chair first trial.
Speaker:Let's give them direct or give
her direct." But it's hard.
Speaker:It's so hard. I thought when
I was asked to speak on this,
Speaker:it was an American college
event and I thought, okay,
Speaker:I haven't done a direct in a really
long time. And I was thinking, oh,
Speaker:that's because I'm really giving
opportunities to the young ...
Speaker:And then I realized, no, it is
hard. In fact, it is really hard.
Speaker:You have to spend so ... To make a
good ... It's easy to do a bad direct.
Speaker:It's easy to lead them around. It's
easy for you to do all the talking.
Speaker:It's really hard to do a good direct.
Speaker:And I read and I also went and
visited with associates about
Speaker:how to do it right. You have a
lot of expectation lying on it.
Speaker:It's your client often, right?
And so they want to look good.
Speaker:So everyone thinks that it's easy.
Speaker:Everyone has very high expectations of it.
You have this illusion of control
Speaker:around what's happening there,
Speaker:and you have to deal with
all those thinking exhibits.
Speaker:So you are actually that charge that we
were talking about that they told you in
Speaker:law school to do at the beginning. If
you have to get in all the evidence,
Speaker:you have to make sure you're getting in
all those exhibits that you need to get
Speaker:through them. So you
can't really control it,
Speaker:but you can control a
lot of parts about it.
Speaker:And that's what I like to try to
think about is what is it we can,
Speaker:what is it that we can do?
Speaker:And the main thing is meet
with the client a lot,
Speaker:like meet with the client
a lot in short bursts.
Speaker:And if you can keep it to
two hours max and just do it
Speaker:frequently and get the story down
in a way where you can get the
Speaker:key words that you need for that charge,
Speaker:maybe even writing them
on that flip chart,
Speaker:because that physicality of doing that
or doing a checklist can be really
Speaker:helpful and just nail down those
statements that you need for the charge,
Speaker:but also make them trust and like her.
A him I recently
Speaker:had had been a combat veteran in
Afghanistan and he was now in business.
Speaker:And you would think being a witness on
the stand would be the easiest thing
Speaker:ever, the opposite.
Speaker:He was holding on so tight to the
jury box. I had to move my client.
Speaker:This is your client?
Speaker:My client, he was an
executive in my client.
Speaker:And I'm like moving my body all
around the well so that I can try to
Speaker:get him to start looking at me
and stop having panic attack.
Speaker:And so you never know until you're
up there what they're going to do,
Speaker:but trying to make them as comfortable
as possible. Sometimes, I mean,
Speaker:in a case like that, you can even
ask, "Man, you're a combat veteran,
Speaker:but you look a little nervous."
And then let them sort of-.
Speaker:That's.
Speaker:The.
Speaker:Obvious question, right? They all
see, nervous. Just let's get out here.
Speaker:What's.
Speaker:The elephant in the room?
You're nervous, aren't you?
Speaker:Exactly.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Exactly.
Speaker:I think there's a lot to think
about in terms of outlining
Speaker:what you can do on direct.
I'm going to go back on this.
Speaker:We were talking about the
evidence and the exhibits.
Speaker:It's really important to have
a cheat sheet for objections
Speaker:on those and just to be ready on
what's going to be objectionable,
Speaker:trying to get as much as
you can in advance, being
empathetic for the listener.
Speaker:They don't like those evidentiary
battles. They're very, very boring.
Speaker:And I call it lump and clump.
Speaker:A lot of cases that I work on have
really voluminous documents doing as many
Speaker:summaries as you can possibly get in.
Speaker:I have one of my favorite sayings from
those bosses that I worked for when I
Speaker:first got out of law school who eventually
became my partners and one of them
Speaker:always said, "Karen,
you're doing all this work,
Speaker:but really cases are won and lost by
words coming out of people's mouths."
Speaker:And he would say it real slow. And what
he really meant is whatever we do is all
Speaker:setting up for what those people on
the stand are going to do on cross and
Speaker:direct. And you know Rusty Hardin?
Speaker:Yeah, of course.
Speaker:So Rusty had a case in DC.
Speaker:I guess the SEC was
prosecuting his client and he
Speaker:said the government lawyer called
him up and he said, "Rusty,
Speaker:we've got you dead to right. The documents
just prove this case." And he said,
Speaker:"Do you have any
documents that can get up,
Speaker:swear out an oath and take the
stand?" And then he's like,
Speaker:"If you don't have anybody
who can talk about it,
Speaker:it's not going to get you there." But
then you have to get into that kind of be
Speaker:in the moment conversational style.
Speaker:And that takes really
getting to know the person.
Speaker:And sometimes my clients
are real estate pros.
Speaker:Sometimes they are finance pros.
Speaker:They wear little vests
You have to get- And.
Speaker:They know this more than you do, so
please don't tell me about my job here.
Speaker:I get it. I got it. I give
presentations, right? You get that a lot?
Speaker:Oh yeah, exactly. And people like
me, I'm charming or whatever.
Speaker:And so that takes way longer to build.
Speaker:It's really truly relationship.
I had one guy tell me,
Speaker:"Why am I meeting with you all
these times?" He basically was like,
Speaker:"I don't even like you. " But I
think he came to sort of like me.
Speaker:But the question was, how do we ...
Speaker:He was a plaintiff in a really big lawsuit
where he had lost an opportunity and
Speaker:we couldn't get him to be
vulnerable at all. And finally,
Speaker:I worked with a jury consultant
who helped me ask this question,
Speaker:which I think is a great question for
anything. And that is, where were you?
Speaker:So using a sense of place.
Speaker:And so where were you when you found out
that what you had built this business
Speaker:on was a lie.
Speaker:And he describes this brick wall that
anyone in our area would know where it
Speaker:was and outside of a FedEx office. And
it's just like he could see it and then
Speaker:you could see it and then
you could see him seeing it.
Speaker:So he got out of, oh my God,
Speaker:I'm in trial to putting him in that place
so he allow him to tell the story and
Speaker:be comfortable.
Speaker:Literally the place.
Speaker:And then another thing that happened in
that case was there was an email where
Speaker:he looked less than truthful
in the email. And I don't know,
Speaker:most of us have had cases where
this happens, right? It's.
Speaker:Bad evidence. We all got.
Speaker:Bad evidence.
Speaker:That's why the case is going to trial.
Speaker:And you got to inoculate. You got to
deal. I think you have to deal with that.
Speaker:100%. I've heard that the only
time that you don't deal with that,
Speaker:and I've heard this from
criminal defense lawyer friends,
Speaker:is if they literally can't, they
literally can't say- There's.
Speaker:No answer.
Speaker:No, they can only say mistakes were
made, or I see that you feel that way.
Speaker:I'm sorry that you feel that
way. But for most people,
Speaker:you have to get it out there. And
for him, what we did was we put it,
Speaker:you contextualize, put it in
the timeline. So in that case,
Speaker:the COVID had just been announced and
here he's in this huge real estate
Speaker:development and it's like we do a timeline
and then you write when you see that
Speaker:email in the timeline, it
doesn't look ... I mean,
Speaker:it's not my favorite piece of evidence,
but it doesn't. It just went away. It's.
Speaker:Buried basically.
Speaker:Yeah. It's varied.
Speaker:And we got to deal with it in advance
of the defense dealing with it.
Speaker:Got it. Well, I got to move it
along here for our listeners.
Speaker:Let's hit the last one.
Let's love logistics and the
law. Talk to us about that,
Speaker:Karen.
Speaker:That is such a fun topic. So I thought
about this a lot and it's really like,
Speaker:okay, so that's alliteration, right?
But there's more alliteration.
Speaker:It's really about people and priorities.
Speaker:And so the idea is that you've got
these people around you who are
Speaker:helping you, otherwise you're
not even able to do this job.
Speaker:So somehow or another, you've got
people around you that are great people.
Speaker:And so make sure you empathize with
that audience as well all the time.
Speaker:They may not be getting all those props
back from the jury or the highs and lows
Speaker:that we get from our job that
can be really motivating.
Speaker:But also my pastor back
when my kids were little,
Speaker:who's now retired, but still
a very good family friend,
Speaker:he and his wife were both pastors. So
they met at Princeton Theology School,
Speaker:Theological Seminary.
Speaker:So they're both very smart and they both
had the same jobs in different places
Speaker:for a while in their career.
And then she went and got a second PhD.
Speaker:But they said, "We don't think
there's any such thing as balance.
Speaker:We think there's just priorities." And
if you think about when you're doing yoga
Speaker:and things, you really
look at a point to balance.
Speaker:I think those two things really
go, what does balance mean?
Speaker:Does it mean that I'm perfectly
being the best mom ever
Speaker:today and I'm also doing closing
argument in a major trial?
Speaker:No, probably not. But does it
mean that after that trial,
Speaker:I take a special weekend where
we do something together.
Speaker:I wish they wanted to do special
week. No, sometimes they do want it.
Speaker:They're in college now. As.
Speaker:Long as you're paying, I'll go with
you. That's been my experience.
Speaker:Exactly. But yeah, so it's like
keep focused on what you need to do,
Speaker:set your priorities. Of course, if a
kid gets sick or something like that,
Speaker:then all those other priorities
get blown. But it's just like,
Speaker:what is the priority today? And make
sure that if you have a life partner,
Speaker:that life partner gets to be in
that spotlight at some point,
Speaker:which is really hard when
you have kids. So doing that.
Speaker:But one of the ways that we did that as
a family was we had family meeting and
Speaker:starting when the kids were really little.
Speaker:And we did it on Sundays at lunch and
we went to the same Mexican restaurant
Speaker:every single Sunday and we would sit
down and call the meeting to order it.
Speaker:These are like with a three-year-old
and by the time they were in elementary
Speaker:school, they wanted to add to the agenda.
It's the way that you can kind of save
Speaker:yourself from running out to the hobby
store at eight o'clock on a Wednesday
Speaker:to go get all the parts for
that poster board or whatever.
Speaker:Or if somebody's going to have a big
outing that they want to do as a teenager
Speaker:that might need a conversation as a group,
Speaker:at least you're talking about what the
week's going to look like and where
Speaker:everybody's going to be.
And part of that is for you,
Speaker:if you want to be a trial lawyer and
you want to be somebody who's developing
Speaker:business as a trial lawyer, is you have
to make some time during that week,
Speaker:probably at least once a week to go
be with other lawyers in community.
Speaker:And because for most of us, most of
our cases come from other lawyers.
Speaker:And also I'll tell you that dark spot
where you're doing all discovery and your
Speaker:kids are little,
Speaker:legal community can be the way that you
make it through that. And other dark
Speaker:spots will come in your career. And
I guess I'm sort of a lawyer nerd,
Speaker:but I find that when I see the people
around me and the things that they're
Speaker:doing for the world and
for the law and I get to
Speaker:be part of that group, that's
what keeps me going day to day.
Speaker:And if you don't make time for that,
Speaker:then it's going to be hard
to enjoy the practice.
Speaker:And it's also going to be really hard
to develop business. So it's not class.
Speaker:I don't like the word networking,
but it's building legal community.
Speaker:Yeah. No,
Speaker:it's good to be a part of something bigger
than you and having a cause to fight
Speaker:for.
Speaker:Exactly.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:And you had incredible support from
your husband raising kids and getting
Speaker:through your ... Now your
kids are quote raised,
Speaker:basically they have kids the same age.
And so they're in college and they're ...
Speaker:And.
Speaker:Both were, they were all
in Boston at one point.
Speaker:They were. Yeah.
Speaker:But those are tough times when you're
a trial lawyer and you get a great
Speaker:partner, you obviously had
great support in the office.
Speaker:There's no such thing as a perfectly
... People talk about work-life balance.
Speaker:Does that exist?
Speaker:That's what I'm saying is it's
priorities. I really don't think that ...
Speaker:And that's why family meeting is so nice
because you sit there and you discuss
Speaker:those priorities out loud with the
other people in the room. So you'll.
Speaker:Say, "Hey, I got a huge dep in wherever,
New York, Wednesday and Thursday.
Speaker:Oh mom, I got a project,
Speaker:a science project due Wednesday." And so
then you got to figure out how this is
Speaker:going to get done, right?
Speaker:Right. And maybe it's Sunday right now,
Speaker:so maybe we can go to the hobby store
on the way home instead of waiting till
Speaker:Tuesday night.
Speaker:On the way to the airport. Yeah.
Speaker:And also maybe that way I can help
pitch in and Brian's not stuck 100%.
Speaker:Brian, who's also, by the
way, a very great lawyer,
Speaker:but a different kind of lawyer, but
he's not stuck doing it all night.
Speaker:If you give it a little
runway, you're able to help a.
Speaker:Little.
Speaker:More. And then maybe you can also
say, "So let's do date night,
Speaker:Saturday night when we get back." I'm
not saying I did that all the time,
Speaker:but it would be- It's a goal.
Speaker:We aspire.
Speaker:The goal. Aspirational. Aspirational.
Speaker:Half hour flew by. I knew it would.
Speaker:Do you have any final words that you
want to share with our listeners,
Speaker:younger trial lawyers trying to make their
way in this beautiful profession that
Speaker:we're in?
Speaker:If you want to be a trial
lawyer, there's a way to do it.
Speaker:So if you think that you need to go on
kind of a mommy track or something like
Speaker:that, and there's nothing wrong
with going on the mommy track,
Speaker:but if you want to be a trial lawyer,
Speaker:maybe you could just not be a superstar
for one year and you could prioritize
Speaker:your health and your relationship with
your baby and your spouse or partner.
Speaker:And then you don't have to
be perfect all the time.
Speaker:And if you're going to do it,
it's not going to be perfect.
Speaker:It's going to be kind of messy.
Speaker:Got to be messy, going to be.
Speaker:Real. It's worth it.
Speaker:But it's worth it. 100%. Karen Burgess,
Speaker:thanks for being a guest on Verdict
Academy. I just had the best time.
Speaker:Thanks for being my
friend, Kevin Morrison.
Speaker:Back at you.
Speaker:Bye. I got.
Speaker:To look it up some country music now.
Speaker:Oh yeah, you better.
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